Your 20s Were for Doing. Your 30s Are for Becoming.

The Shift You’re Feeling

In your 20s, life was about doing. You tried things, chased experiences, made mistakes, and kept moving. Nobody expected you to have it all figured out—and you didn’t.

But now? Something feels different. You hit your 30s and the questions get heavier.

• Am I really giving thought to the future?

• What am I even doing with my life?

• Am I living up to my potential—or playing small?

When Life Stops Being Separate

This is usually when you start to notice how everything connects. Your career, your health, your relationships, your money—they’re not separate anymore. What happens in one area bleeds into the others.

The late nights that didn’t matter in your 20s? They hit harder now. The money you didn’t track before? Suddenly, it’s a real stress point. That relationship you’ve been coasting in? It starts to feel like a decision you can’t put off forever.

And in the middle of all of it—you feel the tension between who you’ve been and the man you’re becoming.

The Questions That Won’t Go Away

You might catch yourself asking:

• Am I with the right partner?

• Do I want a family—or do I just feel pressure to?

• Is this career what I actually want—or just what I fell into?

• Am I taking care of myself in a way that will last?

• Who do I really want to be remembered as?

The fact that you’re even asking these questions? That’s a sign you’re paying attention. And that’s a good thing.

Why Coaching Helps Right Now

Here’s the truth—you don’t have to figure all of this out alone. Coaching helps you:

• Get clear on what matters most to you right now.

• Stay accountable to the man you say you want to become.

• Gain perspective so you see options you might be missing.

Your Next Chapter

Your 20s were about doing. Your 30s are about becoming. This isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about asking the right questions and moving forward with clarity.